Ok, you’ve seen the photo and you think she’s hot. You’ve got her contact details and she’s in your local area. Now it’s just a matter of making contact and you know that all you have to do is pick up the phone but …
It’s right at this point that everything could either go totally pear shape or you could be on the verge of starting a long-time relationship that could take you beyond your wildest fantasies. It’s how you set about making that initial phone call that will determine the outcome.

The very first thing you need to keep in your mind as you dial the number is that the girl of your erotic dreams is under no compulsion to see you at all. If she doesn’t like the way you come across on the phone then she won’t see you.

It never ceases to amaze me that some guys think that I am under some obligation to see them simply because they’ve called me. If I don’t like the sound of the guy on the phone or he comes across as a total sleaze then I will politely decline his offer. It’s at that point that many of them seem surprised.

“Oh but you must see me!” is a common response to a polite refusal but fact is that independent escorts don’t have to see anyone. That is one of the benefits of being independent, we can pick and choose who we have sex with.

So remember, that the girl does not have to see you if she does not like the way you sound on the phone. Make sure that you don’t come across on the phone as a total idiot, or a sleaze.

Lots of guys are nervous when they phone an escort and we understand that. If you stammer and stutter then that’s not a big deal at all. We’re patient, we’ll wait for you to overcome those nerves and if you are pleasant and polite we’ll love you for it.

It’s the guys who try to sound oh so cool on the phone that we don’t like. If I’ve had a bitch of a day fighting traffic and little old ladies with their shopping trolleys the last thing I want to hear on the other end of the phone is some guy trying to sound cool and asking:

“What’s happening babe?”

For him, I can guarantee that nothing will be happening with me because I like to see guys who are genuine and not desperately trying to be someone they are not. I don’t need to be impressed with how cool they are, all I need to be impressed with is the fact that they are not going to be time wasters.

Then there are the guys who phone and their opening gambit is:

“Wanna fuck?”

My standard answer is to hang up. I am one of those girls who are in this business because I love to fuck. The wilder the sex and the more intense the orgasm for both of us the happier I am. But no amount of money will ever get me to see someone who thinks that they are being cool by trying an opening line like that.

Not only are they clearly indicating to me that they have less social skills than a dead fish but they are also indicating that they really haven’t got what it takes to make me, or any other girl, feel good.

Nor do we need to know how big your cock is – bigger is usually not better. We don’t need to know how long you can last; one of my best clients was a guy who suffered from premature ejaculation. We had a lot of fun getting him to the point where he could last more than five minutes.

We don’t need to know how many times you can come in an hour or how much money you might have to spend on us. Of course, money is important but it has been my experience that the guy who claims to have a lot of money to spend on girls usually have none.

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